Friday, May 20, 2005

He IS Out of My League least that is what I am telling myself. Why else would I get a call today at 5pm so that he could give me the "brush off". The classic " I had a great time with you but I don't think it would work out" line. He's realized that he is out of my league and he should be dating some Junior League chick. I'm telling you...I KNEW it! Yea, I was told to get it out of my head and I did and had an awesome time and thought HE had an awesome time...but must have been all one sided if I was looking forward to a possible third date and he was trying to figure out how to give me the brush off.

Karma is a bitch! I have done this brush off to guys who have been in the same situation as me. They are having a great time and there is me, trying to figure out how to get out of the cat-stench apartment or the bad kissing situation. Crap! I guess it's my due this time's just been a while. I forgot what it felt like. To hear the I'm not into you...when you are into them. But I DO give him least he called to tell me and didn't leave me hanging and wondering. That shit will drive any sane woman crazy and well...I'm far from sane!

So I was surprised...but not totally. Now I am bummed and feel like that girl on the "crushed" postcard on my damn refrigerator. As much as I want to just crawl into bed, sleep for days and forget that I was starting to really like this guy...I'm gonna pick myself up, brush myself off and get back into the game. Ugh...the game. I am really tiring of the dating game...but better to play the game than stay at home all the frigging time.

So I best cut this short so I can write some "witty and cute" emails to future potentials. Gotta pack the social calendar.


Anonymous said...

Damn Bostonians. They are all the same. Except for people with the initials DPM. Those Bostonians are angels!


Kelster said...

I am just wondering what the heck constitues being "into you". Unless he is speaking literally...but we won't go there.

Laughing and talking and laughing and talking are not enough for a second date?

Obviously the man is an idiot. You would think, as well off as he apparently is, he woudl have the rectal-cranial seperation surgery.

valerie said... not an angel! HA!

Good try though...Know any single bostonians in SF WITH the accent?! I'd like to date a guy with a cool accent. A New Yawker would be ok too.

Debra said...

Chin up least he did it over the phone and you didn't get a *not working* IM. LOL!

PS: New Yawkers have the BEST accents! LOL!